As I was growing
up, I learned a lot from my parents who instilled into me the understanding
of the virtues of selfless service to humanity. As a young lad (like
most kids I know) I grew up watching my father (a nurse) work selflessly,
diligently and hard, serving the sick and needy on a meager missionary
salary, raising 10 children and sending them all to Christian boarding
academies, with his wife (my dear mother) by his side doing farm work
and selling food stuffs to make ends meet. My parents instilled into
me and my siblings the spirit of service to humanity. I was taught
that man was created in God's image and therefore should be respected
and treated as such. I also learned the need to help those less fortunate
than the rest of us.
As a result, I
took after what profession I thought could most help me achieve or
carry out this goal-- the medical profession. Along the way, I had
embraced certain principles in life, (some of them innate in me and
others adopted) as my life evolved. These, I have adopted, as the
guiding principles, philosophies and ideals of this great organization,
the Africa-American
Friendship Society.
In a speech I
made on December 22, 1997 during a presentation, I concluded, by letting
my audience know that
| "The
quality of a man is measured by how low he stoops to elevate
his fellow human beings to the highest height attainable in
life." |
Then on January
14, 2000, I spoke to my audience in Kennett, MO (Akwete's 1ST
Sister City in the USA)
| "The
most common thing in life we all share is our differences; and
this is one commonality we all can use to build a lasting trust
on, for the rest of our lives, rather than as an excuse for
division and distrust." |
Also, on July
18, 1998, speaking to an audience in St. Louis, MO, I let them understand
that they do not have forever to make a difference in the world. I
stated in my concluding admonition,
| "I
shall pass through this world but once; any good therefore that
I can, I do; or kindness I can show, let me show it now. Let
me not defer or neglect it; for Life being a one way path, I
may never pass through this way again." |
In short, I believe
that we all have only one opportunity to do it right the first time
around, and we may never have another opportunity or the opportunity
of a lifetime to try again. And of course having said all these, I
know we all need the strength, desire and will that only God Almighty
can give us. As such, I have (over the years) understood we can try
but can not do it all; and that is why I have always embraced the
Serenity Prayer composed by Dr. Reinhold Niebuhr, of the Union Theological
Seminary of New York City, in 1932 as the ending of a prayer we all
share as we journey through life in this difficult and unique planet,
called Earth. The prayer says:
| "God
grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And the Wisdom to know the difference." |
I hope and pray
that in all that we do, that God the Father guides His image "man"
to become the beneficiary of all these. Amen.
I hope that you
share in my dream, hope and aspirations to make this world a better
place to be and live in, with love, hope and peace. Please support
us through your kind donations, and prayers. Send your inquiries and
donations to :
Africa-American
Friendship Society
PO Box 1028
Maryland Heights, MO 63043
email: davidson@aafs-usa.org
In conclusion,
I would like you to understand the concept of service to others as
explicitly laid down by Joe Clark, the former principal of Eastside
High School, Patterson, New Jersey, and the inspiration behind the
movie "Lean on Me", speaking in his convocation to the 2001
graduating class of Livingston College of Rutgers University.
| "What
you do for yourself, you take to the graveyard. What you do
for others will live on in perpetuity." |
I choose the
latter. What is your choice?
